Three months has passed eversince i was a senior in my high school. Life has soon became complicated as there were assignments and endless mountains of homeworks to be done. In spite of that, my love life kept me thinking whether is she the right one for me? I soon came myself to think that love isn't all about I LOVE YOU. Having a girlfriend is about taking full responsibility of what so ever that is yet to be done wheter if it is taking her out on romantic nights, buying her bouquet of flowers or facing an unwanted arguement.
Not all girls like to lead in a relationship, so if you're a shy and timid one, buck up and show that girl that u have what it takes to manage a good relationship! What makes a relationship so funny is when a guy loses his words whenever confronting his crush. It is practically normally for it may be your very first. Confidence will soon fill in and there you are! Now, getting a girlfriend is common in a usual teenage life. But make sure that u know your crush well enough. For some may be 'players' or just own a dark background. Friends before a relationship helps in a way that trust, loyalty and commitment plays an important role.
How do u gain your confidence? Its very simple, all it takes is a mature mind with a logical, smooth and polite mouth. Reading the newspaper, socializing with friends helps to add on things to talk about whenever in a relationship. This helps so that a relationship won't be a dull and grey one. Talking on the phone is not always compulsory and it is just a waste of time. Besides, talking on the phone makes each another get BRAIN CANCER. Unbelievable? Believe it! So have some love and dignity for your partner because you're killing her!
Some may say that an argue will lead to a better and more understanding relationship. Well I don't believe in that. Why start an arguement when you can always share the problems together?! Starting as loyal friends before a relationship helps in a way that you'll both understand each other. I once heard that an arguement is made just for the fun of it. That's just ridiculous. Conflicts and misunderstanding starts from a minor 'squeek'. This goes out to all the girls out there too.
The wonder moments in a relationship is when it all starts with COULD YOU BE MY GIRLFRIEND? . The feeling of butterflies in your stomach will swirl all over. It feels that you wanna see her everyday and miss her during lonely nights. A relationship will soon get boring when both there is a loss of words. Sour faces soon appear whenever two collide just because A little text message from a long lost friend Or a little extra work from school which makes the two lovebirds unable to spend quality time together. Eventually, no more texting late at night, phone calls dont appear and tears of the sorrow heart will soon flow. So why torture yourself? Maintain a strong and loyal relationship together. Pick a date to start. It's your choice but the sooner the better.
A little word of wisdom, pick a healthy partner. Dont choose someone that would endanger your life. STUDY COMES FIRST. A better future is to a better life. I myself had went through this ridiculous teenage love life and learnt from it. I promised myself that HEY! why not i just give myself a try and go for that girl that i was eye'ing on. On that thought, I also promised myself that liking a person is alright but double timing is not COOL as its just messing around with your partner's feelings. Therefore, guys dont be afraid. Do the right thang! =)
